BIG things come from SMALL things..



no matter who you are, what you..
when you FALL.. you fall hard..

Wednesday, September 8, 2010
4:40pm-4:42pm

"Big things come from small things"..no matter what you do in your life, "everything starts from something"..

In our parents life, then:
When mom & dad started. They became friends first. As life brought them along thru time, things grew. Friendship suddenly turned into admiration, then to infatuation.. Somewhere along the way, it even grew much bigger - it grew to Love.. Then came Marriage.

When our parents wed, they had to prepare for it. Wedding preparations then were not as detailed compared to todays generation. Still, every detail counts. The had been a lot to consider: the date, church, venue for reception, the people to be invited, the entourage and the works. All of it came from something, from someone.

As they build a family, still it had to come from one step at a time. A family is suppose to be composed of a man & a woman, in love, and wed,,then the children.


every sunrise brings new hope

They say it takes two to tango. Indeed true especially when it is out of love. Man and a woman's love results to a gift of life. A newborn. A cute and cuddly little bundle of joy.
One thing led to another and another that came out wonderful. See how small things create a bigger picture!

In our daily life:
As we wake each morning, we prepare to go to work. A pail of water to bathe needed several drops of water to fill the container.

From the things we wear, eat, drive-in, work with; all of IT needed small things to create.


choose carefully the path you walk through

As we go along with our lives, we tend to disregard little details, because we became zoo busy with the big ones.

In work:
We struggle nor the challenges that are given to us at work. We build on a good foundation in order to successfully climb, one step at a time, the Corporate ladder we are in. We start from scratch (or nothing) in order to build something. We attend meetings to solve crisis and 
propose alternative solutions. We talk to people and discover new things that somehow would help us in our journey in the business world. We start from the lowest class and in time, dreams and aspire in becoming one of the top executives. All this, from something; our passion and drive to excel in the career we've chosen.


small droplets of water, fill a glass

Bottom-line on all of this, never ever disregard the LITTLE things we have in life, know your PRIORITIES in life.. What's needed and just wanted. For all we know, these are the very reason for our existence.. For our lives.

Pain

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everytime i find myself alone, i wonder and ponder on a lot of things. i admit, up to this moment i haven't gotten over him. until when will i suffer this pain inside me? i no longer aspire or long for us getting back together, its inevitable. but why do i still think of him, why can't i just have my own life. he already has his own, am i not entitled to my own happiness??

what do i have to experience more for me to be able to get over him. i knew i shouldn't have fallen in love..but falling in love wasn't suppose to be like this. 

i loved him soo much, so much that i was left with nothing for myself. my heart had been broken, but not this hard. my heart's been shattered, torn into pieces. loving a person shouldn't have been like this.

i do not regret having fallen in love; i'd still want to fall in love. love is suppose to be wonderful, and not painful.

Reaction to LOVE..

In life there is always two sides of it, happy or sad, exciting or boring.. So goes to love. We either win or loose a love or in love. But for whatever reason there may be, I would want my love be felt by that special person; expressing ones love for the other, the least one could do is to honestly tell the other how he/she feels.

two sides of life and love

Indeed it hurts, when we are faced with reality that the sole person we love, wouldn’t be contented and happy with us. The only recourse we have is to let go of that person. Because we are only holding that person away from his/her true happiness. And in that case, not with us, but with somebody else’s.

Having found love in a person doesn’t necessarily mean this would last (but, yes it could still). It is just like taking care, for the first time, of a puppy… as time passes by, he grows and soon dies. And we mourn for the loss of that pet; and is then afraid of getting a new, for the thought that it is painful to loose another.

In love, it is also the same. We are afraid to take the risk (again) in falling in love, for it could be another pain for us to undergo.

pages of a book,
is like ones journey in life

The hurt remains only if we do not teach ourselves and face the reality that we/life must go on after a hurt from a once loved and rise to every fall we encounter.

In every chapter of our lives, we begin a new and end another. As these transitions evolve in our lives, we learn to be strong and mature in facing another challenge in our journey. Closing a chapter in one’s life is another step into a more colorful and adventurous life travel.


At times we are faced by this confusing phase: is it time? Or should we try to stay? When will it really be the right time to let go and when to hold on? Love as they say, is boundless. You can go on loving someone even when you have already parted. But that will be on your own, it is no reciprocated any longer. You no longer are apart of a so-called relationship. Others call it respect; respect for the times you’ve shared and memories you’ve came to build and treasured.

which one???

It is time to let go, when you’ve exerted all measures to save a relationship and yet still fails. That relationship is no longer growing. When you still see hope for your relationship to grow, then hold on, fight for it. But when the other is no longer responding to any of your efforts; so be it. Bid your goodbye. At least you still have memories you could treasure.

a withered rose is like
a withered love..
no morestrength to grow

Who said falling in love was easy. It takes a lot of guts to simply express oneself. At times we are questioned by the same people surrounding us if ‘tis true or just a confusion on our emotion towards another. Many may contest the very essence and turn us down, but with matters of the heart, who can very well understand it but only us, the person feeling it.

Risk is an obstacle we need to undergo. I believe that without experiences it, we can never know if we are learning or not. It is but normal to get rejected or fail in a relationship. Again, who said it was going to be easy. Love is a privilege; one has not to take for granted. It is a gift that we must share and receive. Be not turned down by all is negativity, for when true love is bound to be yours, it’ll be there to stay.

One song goes: “Love is a many splendored thing..” love is magical, it casts a lot of spell into people who have been struck by it. At times they go on a state of hallucination (but a good one). It makes people do things they never imagined they could do. Most of the time, they go crazy..deeply into the idea of being in love. But a word of the wise, be careful for love is addictive.

magical idea, magical feeling and emotion

The greatest sacrifice is that of ones true love.. The act of sacrificing their own happiness for the happiness of the one they love. It is difficult at first but when you learn and come to realized, and have found that your sacrifices were indeed worth it, it’ll make you feel light. And seeing the one person you love, truly happy even if he/she doesn’t belong to you anymore; you would feel happy and at peace.


(There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love ‘coz every time we do, we get hurt, then...)

in the end, if its goin' to be yours
it'll be..

When your afraid of what you feel inside, when your afraid to express how you truly feel, and afraid of being rejected, LOVE isn’t going be meant for you. How will you learn? How will you experience the grandness of it, if you’ll be afraid? Face your fear, remember, we only have one life to live.. Things happen for a reason, for whatever reason they maybe, accept it wholeheartedly. It’s yours to take. Grab it. If it isn’t, then it’ll never be. Trying never cost a thing.. start sharing love to that special person.. because, it’ll haunt you if you don’t.. you’ll be drowned by the idea and thoughts of asking yourself “What if???”

I figured that's why it's called falling in love...